Oddly after both the kid and I came to peace that compared to larger field her swimming capacity is limited, we have begun to enjoy the swim meets way more. I find more joy now in her incremental improvements and she is not walking out upset at herself or us like she used to after these meets. It’s been refreshing not to be part of hyper competitive pack cheering every stroke and flip. It’s nice! I hope she keeps swimming competitively as long as she can!