The sad fact for me is not that I and dad are just disconnected at pretty much most levels at this point, but that disconnect also propagates to rest of the family too. He has absolutely no interest in our day to day lives, events, sports or other things. A couple of years back he made some effort to be involved in kid’s life & events, but now even thats disappeared. He has no interest in joining us at any swim meets or outings, or engaging her in any conversation of connect. My kid tries harder to connect with him than he does, and I appreciate her so much more for this (pats on back, I am raising a good kid!). Give him a phone with Whatsapp and he’ll be happy to be on it 24/7 with little or no care in the world consuming all the forwards and videos!